Out of all the people out there, you had to go and fall for a farmer! As cute and irresistible as they may seem, farmer dates also come with their set of peculiarities that you need to figure out as soon as possible so you’re prepared to handle most of the situations that come your way. Below we present our list of top 4 tips that guarantee your farmer will become obsessed with you and only you in no time.
#1: Keep it Real
We’ll get to ‘sexy’ in just a minute, but before we do that, there is one thing to remember – farmers are simple people and don’t like anything that looks or smells fake, arrogant or dishonest in any way. It’s easy to wear a revealing dress and catch his eye, but keeping him interested for longer than a couple of weeks is another story, the one we want to talk about here. When you’re talking face to face or when you’re texting, make sure you’re as grounded as possible. Farmers like their women to be traditional and not draw too much attention to themselves by being too loud, acting like drama queens or being obnoxious in any way. You’re a down-to-earth person no matter how successful or independent a lifestyle you may lead thanks to all the hard work you’ve put in, and that’s the card you should be playing.
#2: Keep it Sexy
And now for the fun part. Regardless of whether they’re farmers, bankers or university professors, men can’t resist pretty girls. They may love us or hate us, but no matter how you slice it they can’t resist us. Farmers like their women hot in the bedroom and reserved everywhere else, so you need to be careful when choosing your outfit, shoes, makeup, and hairstyle. Show a little bit of skin, but still keep it mysterious. Make sure the little things that make you feel super confident are all in place – your eyebrows are done, your nails are short and manicured, and your face looks fresh without a ton of makeup on it. He won’t notice these details per se, but they will help you pull off any kind of outfit you opt for because they’ll add those crucial finishing touches.
#3: Keep it Friendly with his Friends
Farmers dating isn’t all that different from any niche out there when it comes to your relationship with his friends. Whatever you do, never find yourself flirting with any of them because that will lower you in their eyes, and you don’t want that. Keep it friendly, always smile and be polite, and let them take initiative in the beginning. You don’t want them to think you’re some kind of man-eater who’ll take their friend away and start running his life. On the other hand, you want to get on their good side and stay there, so if they suggest a barbecue at the most inconvenient time for you, find a way to be there and have a good time. Do your hair and make just enough so you feel desirable, but don’t go overboard with your choice of outfit because you want to leave the best for when the two of you are alone.
#4: Make the First Move
You didn’t see this one coming, did you? Farmers are pretty honest and loyal creatures, and many of them are shy as well so you want to give him a clear sign you’re interested. Touch his hand in passing when nobody’s watching. Say his name when nobody is around to hear it but him. Send him cheeky messages after 11 pm. Play it coy, and yet make it clear enough you’re crushing on him hard, and pretty soon he’ll be totally smitten with you.