The prostate is definitely something to be enjoyed in both solo and shared play. Many people enjoy solo and shared play that comes in the form of anal pleasure, regardless of their gender identity or sexual preference. This has many nerve endings and it’s extremely sensitive. For men, in particular, anal exploration is exceptionally good for a natural ‘high’ and deeper, more explorative satisfaction.
The prostate is the gland within the sexual organs of a man. It’s a plethora of nerve endings which can provide sensational pleasure and even orgasm. Yes, prostate orgasm is definitely a regular staple for many guys. Surprised yet?
Let’s take a look at: how it feels, the tips and tricks, giving it, getting it, the preparation, finding it, and the art of execution.
Stimulation feels like…
Similar to the g-spot for the ladies, the p-spot (or prostate) can be a little bit of a hard place to find, but once you do, the satisfaction is warranted for sure. Here are some online quotes from people who enjoyed it greatly.
“I’ve never felt like this before, sometimes I wonder how I went for so long without it,” Mark, USA.
“It’s a deeper sense of satisfaction, really. You know, something that’s kinda hard to describe with words and it kinda makes you feel high or euphoric. As if you’ve reached a bliss state. My partner likes watching me go there, and it seems to enhance our bond too.” Jeremy, Australia.
“It’s super fun, it’s erotic, and I love getting over the line in solo and partnered sessions.” Kurt, Germany.
“The fun is all about watching it happen to my partner. It makes me get turned on too.” Amelia, Canada.
Tips and tricks to orgasm
There aren’t really ‘rules’ as such, but there are a few good ways to bring on the most intensely awesome p-spot orgasm you can have, according to many reviewers of the “prostate experience.”
Giving a prostate orgasm can occur in two ways: direct and indirect.
Anal penetration or perineum-type pressure, these are the types of indirect methods that can be used. The only known direct method is dubbed “urethral sounding” and this works by inserting a special ‘toy’ into the penis.
To aid your partner easily and without a toy, just gently use a finger to concentrate on giving your partner a feeling of enjoyment (at first). Anal play without stimulating the p-spot is exceptionally sexy, actually. The p-spot is simply the ‘icing’ on the metaphorical cake. The real key is communicating with your partner as you give the pleasure to them, so that way you’ll know how (and what) they like.
Giving it…
The anal cavity needs some gentler care. It’s actually susceptible to injury and damage more easily, and this is because it cannot lubricate itself like a vagina can. Always make sure your nails are short and that nothing else (such as jewelry) is impeding the play. This is really important, so take note here. A good lubrication is important and listening to any instructions during play is also necessary to create pleasure, as opposed to pain.
Getting it…
Be clean. In fact, an anal douche and having a bowel movement beforehand can help a lot, and this will also give you the confidence to know that nothing nasty will be in the way of the pleasure you’re about to enjoy, and you’ll smell good and be sexier too, especially if you can make an effort. Attraction is part of being with someone, and having a shower and using aftershave (gentle amount) can be really lovely for your partner’s pleasure zones too. So spruce up before the event, and let your body enjoy the feeling after that…
Preparation, finding it… and the art of execution
Much like the g-spot, the prostate can be found internally on the frontal wall. Just insert a lubricated finger about an inch inside and maintain a good contact with the front wall until you come across a texture which feels somewhat like a nut.
It’s really all about the stroke, to be honest. It’s that similar movement to g-spot (curled-up) fingering, but with the added communication with your partner. So listen to what they like from words and in moans, as examples. And always, always be willing to go slower or faster in pace, depending upon what they like.
All in all, anal stuff can be super exciting and sexy-deep-kinda-satisfying, and if you know what do, then you can definitely enjoy it as a staple in your sex life. In fact, adding top rated prostate massagers into the mix can be excellent and very, very sexy and erotic; whether partnered or solo.
Remember to add in foreplay for your partner if they like it too, and this can include deep kisses, intimate or flirty touch and even dirty talk before and/or during play. But whatever you do, do it for the sake of pleasure and respect in mind, for yourself and for your partner in the case of shared enjoyment and satisfaction. Bottoms up!