New York City is often referred to as the “city that never sleeps.” As someone who has moved around plenty, I can tell you most large cities “don’t sleep,” but NYC has always drawn in dreamers, entrepreneurs, and creatives from all over the world. There’s something about the skyscrapers and endless opportunities in that city specifically that calls to people who want to start a new chapter in their lives. But you might want to think twice about moving to New York, and here’s why.
1. Skyrocketing Cost of Living
NYC has never had a low cost of living, but as things are increasingly expensive everywhere in the United States, prices have continued to rise in the Big Apple. Rent alone in New York can consume a significant portion of your monthly budget, with the average rent payments hovering around $4,900 per month. Even the outer boroughs, like Queens, have seen significant increases in rent prices. Beyond that, the cost of utilities, groceries, and public transit have all gone up too. Living in New York can quickly become a financial nightmare if you’re not prepared for the cost.
2. Limited Space and Tiny Apartments
Speaking of rent, you will likely be paying those large amounts for a very small space. One of the biggest shocks for implants in New York is the lack of space… everywhere. Apartments located in NYC are known to be extremely small. So, if you are moving from the suburbs, you will probably find yourself paying more money for something significantly smaller than you had before. Plus, if you’re used to more space, these cramped apartments can actually make your day-to-day life more stressful.
3. Overwhelming Crowds
Everywhere in New York City is crowded. There are 8.3 million people living there and the population climbs each day. Not to mention, it is a big tourist spot. So, the city can feel suffocating at times. If you are in a public place, like the subway or a park, it is often packed with people. And if you’re trying to get around at rush hour, forget about it! The crowded spaces often make everyday tasks overwhelming. If you value personal space or quiet, NYC probably isn’t the place for you.
4. Unpredictable and Extreme Weather
New York City’s weather is not that great. It’s known for its unpredictable weather patterns. The summers tend to be hot and humid. Then, when the winter months come along, they can be brutally cold. There are snowstorms and below-freezing temps at times. This makes it hard to live in NYC year-round, which is why many retirees travel down South during the winter months. You should be prepared to deal with these extremes if you’re moving to New York.
5. Exorbitant Competition in Every Field
Because there are so many people in the city, there is stiff competition for every job you’ll apply for. Whether you are an artist, an entrepreneur, or a businessman looking for a corporate job, there are thousands of other people applying for the same position or doing the same thing. While the diverse environment can be something that draws you in, landing a job can be incredibly challenging. Many newcomers will settle for a job just to make ends meet, with many people waiting tables and working multiple jobs. This can lead to burnout and dissatisfaction. You should be prepared for the hustle before moving to NYC.
6. Subpar Public Transportation Experience
The subway system is extensive and covers much of the city. However, it is far from being perfect. There are often delays and breakdowns. You’d be hard-pressed to find a time when the train isn’t packed full too. Maintenance is also an issue. There are times when entire lines might be shut down for hours or days because maintenance is being performed. This can make getting to your job or various appointments stressful. It also takes a lot of time, and driving a car is no better. You’ll undoubtedly be stuck in traffic.
7. Noise Pollution 24/7
There is an overwhelming amount of noise in New York City. At any given moment, you’ll hear sirens, honking cars, construction, and just the general noise of 8.3 million people living in the space city. Even if you’re up in the middle of the night, the city will still be making noise. After all, it is the city that never sleeps. The constant noise could potentially take a toll on your mental health and sleep quality if you’re not prepared.
8. High Crime Rates in Certain Areas
It’s true that New York City has become safer over the years, but crime is still high in certain neighborhoods. In July 2024, 44 murders, 135 rapes, 1485 robberies, and 2671 felony assaults were reported in NYC. Compared to Los Angeles, this is relatively low. In 2022, NYC had 5.3 murders per 100,000 people, while LA was at 10.1 murders per 100,000. However, this is something you should seriously consider before moving to New York.
9. Strain on Mental Health
Living in the big city isn’t easy. In NYC, there is a fast-paced, competitive environment that can quickly lead to stress and burnout. Many people living in New York will find themselves working overtime to afford their lifestyle. There is often little time available for self-care or relaxation. Also, the constant noise and crowded environment can increase feelings of anxiety or depression. You might find that living in NYC has a negative impact on your mental health.
10. Limited Connection with Nature
There are some green spaces for city-dwellers to enjoy, Central Park being one of them. That said, the opportunities to connect with nature are extremely limited. If you are a nature lover, the city probably isn’t the place for you. Your surroundings can quickly feel stifling if you’re someone who loves to hike or lounge at the beach.
Life in the Big City
At one time, moving to a big city like New York was a dream for me, and it was a lifelong dream for many people. Before you make the move, you should weigh all of the pros and cons. You should visit the city and realize the realities of living there before you make a decision. The cost of living alone is enough to keep many people away, but city life can also lead to anxiety and depression. It takes a truly special person to become a New Yorker.