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5 Ways to Manage Stress After a Divorce

No matter how smoothly the process goes, divorce is stressful. And when the legal process is over, that stress doesn't necessarily go away on its own. It can continue to linger, causing you physical and mental health issues. This is why it is so important to manage your stress levels after divorce. Here are five ways to keep your stress under control in this situation.

Keep Busy

When you're bored, you have plenty of time to dwell on the divorce and worry about the future. So instead, find something to fill your time. If you bought a house afterward, home renovations can be a great way to be productive and occupied. Heat gain and loss through windows account for 25% to 30% of residential energy usage which means you can replace your windows or even paint some rooms. You can distract yourself while also finding ways to save money in the future.

Keep Up with Your Responsibilities

It can be tempting to stay in bed and ignore everything you have to do, but this can catch up with you. Make sure that you stay on top of your responsibilities. This is especially true for what you need to do after the actual divorce. What are your custody or alimony responsibilities? Spousal maintenance laws haven't changed since they were introduced in Texas in 1997. So make sure you know the rules. If you stay on top of what needs to be done, it won't get overwhelming and stress you out even more than it already has.

Talk to Someone

You probably have a lot of emotions connected to the divorce. Talking to someone about everything that has happened can be a great way to help manage your stress. This could be a friend or family member. Or it could be a therapist who can help you on a professional level. If you keep your feelings bottled up, the stress will continue to build. So it is important that you find a safe way to let it out. Talking will help you release that stress while also connecting more with other people.

Find Relaxing Activities

Make a point of doing things just to relax. If you own a pool or hot tub, like 17.12% of Americans, these can be a great way to treat your body and unwind. Even if you're the type of person who likes to be busy and engaged, relaxation breaks are important. So find something to incorporate into your routine that is soothing. That way, when stress builds up, you'll have a way to bring it back down again.

Let Go of What's Beyond Your Control

As much as you want to be in control of what is happening around you, you can't. You can't control what your ex-spouse does and you can't control what the future brings. However, these can be big stressors for many people. It is essential that you learn how to let go. Let go of other people's behavior and let go of the future that you'd planned to have. If you can learn how to let go of things you can't control, you'll have an easier time focusing on things that you can control. This will make you feel better and bring down your stress levels.

After you've gone through a divorce, you need to figure out your life all over again. This process, along with the legal aspects of the divorce itself, can increase your stress to unhealthily high levels. Take these five tips and apply them to your life, trying them all out to see which ones work best for you. You'll find that your stress levels will become much more manageable.

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