Anniversaries mark joyful milestones in a couple's journey together. Each year presents an opportunity to honor and celebrate your continued love.
While following traditions like exchanging cards and flowers or going out for a nice dinner are common anniversary practices, taking the occasion up a notch with a personalized theme makes it even more fun and meaningful.
Incorporating tailored motifs into your anniversary plans shows creativity and thoughtfulness.
Themes help shape the overall vibe through decor, activities, food, gifts, and more.
Whether it's tonguing it back to paper for your 1st or going full-on golden for your 50th, themes add a pop of color and excitement. They provide a chance to highlight what makes your relationship unique.
Traditions give a helpful starting point, with recommended materials and symbols assigned to each anniversary year.
But the beauty of themes is making traditions your own by putting a spin based on your interests and personality as a couple.
You can highlight hobbies you share, inside jokes only the two of you understand, travel adventures, favorite movies to watch together, and so much more.
Going beyond the generic allows you to honor each year's significance in a way that feels distinctly you.

This guide provides creative theme ideas to inspire your anniversary planning for celebrations that beautifully reflect your relationship.
1st Anniversary – Paper
Paper is the traditional material for the first anniversaries. Incorporate it through:
- Paper gift wrap, tissue paper, cards, and love notes
- Framed wedding photos, printed art, or papercut silhouettes
- DIY paper flowers, chains, garlands, paper lanterns
- A printed canvas of wedding photos or favorite memories
- Print a customized newspaper chronicling your first-year
Turn paper into art, decor, and heartfelt messages. Transform your home into a paper paradise reflecting the lightness and optimism of your first year together.
5th Anniversary – Wood
The traditional 5th-anniversary material is wood. Use it for:
- Engraved wooden gifts like photo frames or cutting boards
- Place wood slice candleholders, vases, or chargers around your home
- Frame wood slices decorated with memories written in metallic pen
- Have an indoor bonfire or fireplace picnic with wood-themed snacks
- Hike in the woods, strolling down memory lane
Infuse your celebration with rustic, earthy wood elements symbolizing a marriage growing stronger.
10th Anniversary – Tin/Aluminum
Tin or aluminum represents 10 years of marriage. Ideas include:
- Cook together in tin pots, aluminum foil, or other shiny cookware
- Serve an aluminum-inspired silver and grey color scheme
- Tin can lanterns, wind chimes, or decorative garlands
- Gifts like engraved tin trays, jewelry, vases, or business card holders
- Picnic outside with tin buckets, plates, mugs
Incorporate versatile tin and aluminum to display your flexibility and ability to smoothly sail through life's ups and downs after a decade together.
15th Anniversary – Crystal
The 15th-anniversary material is crystal, representing your relationship's clarity and brilliance. Incorporate through:
- Crystal jewelry gifts like earrings, cufflinks, bracelets
- Crystal glassware for toasting sparkling champagne -Scatter small crystal confetti on tables
- Display crystal beads in glass vases with fairy lights
- Reflect light through a crystal prism for a rainbow of color
20th Anniversary – China
Delicate China represents two decades of marriage. Ideas:
- Register for new china dishware to replace well-loved sets
- Display your wedding china if preserved for 20 years
- Recreate your wedding menu on fancier china
- DIY broken china crafts like mosaics or jewelry keepsakes
- High tea party with china cups, teapots, stands and pastries
25th Anniversary – Silver
The shiny and precious silver represents 25 years of marriage. Incorporate it through:
- Engraved silver jewelry, platters, picture frames
- Silver floral arrangements, vases, candles, balloons
- Place settings with silver chargers, cups, cutlery
- Frame old photos in new ornate silver frames
- Silver sequin backdrops, curtains, tablecloths
Build an opulent silver celebration worthy of honoring such an impressive marriage milestone.
30th Anniversary – Pearl
The pearl symbolizes 30 years of partnership. Ideas include:
- Pearl jewelry gifts like necklaces, earrings, rings
- Strands of pearls as table garlands, backdrops, photo props
- Pearl floral arrangements and wreaths
- DIY desserts decorated with frosting pearls
- Oceanside picnic or trip to admire natural pearls
Incorporate luminous pearls to represent the wisdom gleaned from three decades side-by-side.
40th Anniversary – Ruby
Vibrant rubies honor 40 years of passion and devotion. Celebrate with:
- Ruby jewelry gifts like necklaces, rings, cufflinks, earrings
- A red and pink color scheme with ruby-red roses
- Red velvet cake, ruby's color, for dessert
- Use red candles, table linens, backdrops
- Plan a hot air balloon ride, symbolizing your relationship rising sky-high
50th Anniversary – Gold
Go all-out golden for an impressive 50th milestone:
- Gold floral centerpieces, balloons, candles, tableware
- Golden backdrops, photo props, signs
- Golden gift wrapping
- Golden costume accessories
- Rent a suite in a sleek highrise building, with the today's modern style
Make the golden 50th-anniversary with soirée brilliantly opulent and luxe.

Milestone Anniversaries – 75th and Beyond
Major milestones like the ,75th, 80th or 90th anniversaries deserve special recognition for achieving such a lifelong partnership. Ideas include:
- Large gathering with extended family and friends
- Legacy video with congratulations from loved ones
- Custom menu of favorite foods through the decades
- Scrapbook, memory book, or slideshow of your journey together
- Vow renewal ceremony with original wedding elements
Commemorate these ultra-rare relationship achievements as an example of enduring love.
Make Any Year Unique
Anniversary themes can go beyond the traditional materials assigned to each year. Make your celebrations personal by incorporating details unique to your relationship.
Translate cherished memories, inside jokes, favorite films, hobbies, travel adventures, and special milestones into customized motifs. If golf is your shared passion, let that inspire your theme.
Or an inside joke could become a funny activity. With so many special memories to pull from, you have endless possibilities for fresh, meaningful anniversary themes each year.
Anniversaries are the perfect opportunity to honor your relationship's continued growth with a creative theme that adds significance. Let your uniqueness shine through to make each anniversary distinctively yours when planning themes for wedding anniversaries.
Tailor celebrations around traditional materials representing your years together, or customize motifs based on your personal memories and passions.