We all know how important intimacy is for a relationship. We also know the struggle of keeping intimacy strong when life takes its toll. After a hard day at the office, the last thing you want to do is get sexy with your man. We’ve all been there. So, how can you work around the problem? Getting away from the stress that’s driving you apart is the first step. That’s why a hot and steamy weekend could be the perfect thing. But, it’s important you get it right. If you plan to rekindle your intimacy, there are a few things you need to consider to ensure it happens!
CHOOSE THE RIGHT LOCATION
The location will have a significant impact on how romantic the weekend is. For the most part, anywhere with a bit of sun should do the trick. But, some destinations are more suited to romance than others. To make things special, why not book a destination that means something to your relationship? Did you visit somewhere in the early days? Or, could you revisit the location of your honeymoon? A blast from the past would be an ideal way to reignite what’s been missing between the two of you. Plus, it could bring back a lot of nostalgia for you both.
Or, you might want to pick somewhere you’ve never been before. That could be effective, too. What better way to experience a new location than with each other? Do your research into romantic places. You may want to go somewhere like Barcelona, Spain’s most romantic setting. Or, is Venice more up your street? Of course, you don’t have to stick to these traditional romantic getaways. You could, instead, choose a location with a little exclusivity. How does a private cabin somewhere in the Caribbean sound? This will ensure that you can enjoy each other’s company with little distraction. Which is exactly what you want from a romantic getaway, isn’t it? Bear in mind that you may need to take longer than a weekend for the more exotic destinations. But, that’s nothing to moan about!
THINK ABOUT WHERE TO STAY
Instead of booking straight into a hotel, it’s worth spending a little time considering your accommodation options. With a little luck, things could get raunchy. Do you want the whole hotel to hear what’s going on? Knowing that your walls are paper thin can be a real turn off. And, what good is a romantic break if you have to hold back? Instead, it may be worth paying a little extra for a holiday apartment. That way, you know there’s no risk of anyone hearing what you’re up to! Plus, you won’t have to do the walk of shame after having spent the day in your room.
If an apartment is too pricey, why not look into Airbnb’s? These are a more affordable way of getting the exclusive travel touch. While some options will be in a family home (definitely not what you want!) others will be in a stand-alone structure. Do a little research to find out if there’s anything that would suit your needs. Make sure that you pick somewhere where you won’t be disturbed!
DON’T INVITE MOTHER NATURE TO THE PARTY
Considering that the name of the game is intimacy, it may be necessary to take precautions. For some lucky women, your period will be regular, and you can book at a time when you won’t have to tackle the problem. For many of us, though, mother nature may well invite herself. And, as we book holidays well in advance, there’s no chance of working around it. Instead, you may have to consider ways you can delay your period. That way, you don’t have to worry. Nothing can kill the mood quite so much as an unexpected visit from mother nature, after all.
To ensure the weekend goes off with a bang, it’s important you pack right. Remember that the aim of the game is to reignite your intimacy. With that in mind, make sure you’re packing things with your man in mind. Does he have any favorite outfits? Make sure to include them! Think, too, about stocking up on some treats sure to get him in the mood. Sexy lingerie is sure to go down well! If it’s something you’ve never played with before, all the better. This is about getting away from the norm, right? Make sure that you also pack plenty of protection! If all goes well, you’ll need it!